Hi mdoodles,

You are so admired for how far you have come.

I guess there was a time I was doubtful you would be able to break free from all the psychotic drama.

You did it and have given little son so much more everyday for having the strength to take a stand against H and OW. I have always been sorry he treated you so badly. I am sorry they don't wake up in time to reverse the damages they cause.

I know moving for you was a wise choice given the in-laws next door and H's relentless "stalking" for lack of a better word.

I can't move right now. Son does not want to leave his home. He has only ever lived here and is a freshman in high school. I will wait it out to seek another place in a few years. I live in a very small town in southern Maine and I do have a very good group of supportive friends. The hardest part is H is only 6 miles away. My home is really nice and comfortable. It is a large property too, with 2 big Barns as well. It is probably too much property for me to take care of alone, I try really hard and eventually will sell it and downsize.

Your H emailing is so funny, he doesn't get it!! He does get the award for "I caught on after I lost everything" LOL

We will chat later, someone is here to plow my driveway and I need to move the car smile

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11