Good question, can i? I guess if im still asking then there's a sign there.

However, i just learned that W lied this about this morning, it was not a visit to C but a lawyer. Quickly this is turning to talking about her rights and a separation agreement...if we can work out an agreement and use the same lawyer it could be a lot cheaper she says...maybe so but.

Things seems to be developing fast. Now the bathroom reno will happen next tuesday, how we pay for it i dont know. I was so mad when she told me of her lie i just offered to shut my mouth and not say anything, and i finished doing the dishes like the chump i am (after i cooked supper).

We had a more recent conversation but i dont wish to relay it at this time. Needless to say in her opinion marriage counselling wont do jack.