Can I Save My Marriage Part 2

[John170]

i think the biggest thing is my actions and the things i said to her after the separation and always accusing her of having someone else when she doesn't.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I saw that John,

What maybe you didn't see is that you not talking to her got her wondering about you, and that was just a week.

Give it more time, and see what happens.

Have your read Divorce Remedy?

No offense but right now you're coming off about as scattered as a hamster on crack and 4 wheels in its cage.

[John170]

hahahahahahaahaha yea i know i ramble but better her than with her. yes Ive read it very logical book.

[John170]

i am the poster child of chasing cheeseless tunnels hahahahahaha

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Stop doing the things that don't work then. Right?

Easier said than done, yes, but even that is just an excuse.

[John170]

jack your right i should have learned in three months begging pleading trying to make her feel guilty and bad mouthing her that it isn't gonna work and just reaffirms her decision to separate.

[John170]

i know i cant worry about her sleeping with someone while we are separated but it drives me insane. i know women have sex drives and we have been separated for three months so i feel sure it will happen soon. just wish thee was an easy to deal with it.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Not to put a shiny fluffy bunny on your wife maybe sleeping with someone else, but your imagination tends to make reality worse than it is.

[John170]

jack i know i have always done that even when we were together. its cause of my insecurities cause i cheated on her.

[John170]

she said she has never cheated on me and never will. all of her friends assure me she isnt seeing anyone.