Hi Sanderika, I just popped in to say hello, send warm hugs, positive thoughts and peaceful vibes to you for today.
I can understand that having H there will be unsettling. However, whatever you are asking for has come after careful consideration and you are above all else a fair and compassionate person. You have endured so much over the past five years and not only have you supported, loved and cared for S but you have also been a haven for H when the easier option would have been to harden your heart to him. In that court room keep an ongoing mantra, " I am a loving and compassionate person. I deserve a happy, peaceful and successful future."
If you breakdown, no big deal. It simply reveals the sensitive and loving person that you are.
Your H's comment that he is not happy about divorcing says it all. Perhaps he thinks this will give him some kind of closure. After all, it's the only thing he hasn't tried yet to bring him the inner peace he obviously desires.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
(((((Sanderka)))))
PS We are all safe from the floods and reports expect our area to remain unaffected at this stage. It is absolutely devastating.
