Having a really hard time...

[MrBond]

"I'm positive that she did this because she knows that I'm trying to enjoy myself this week. "

Mindreading. She's just doing what she said she'd do.

Questions like what you have are why you need to get a L to know your rights. I thought you were going to just give her everything?

You could say you didn't get her message and that you'll be thinking what the best course of action is for you. Start getting information on your own and come up with your own proposal. Sounds like she's enjoying the control you've given her.