My previous post was premature. I posted in the separation forum but really when i think about it i am just starting - even saying that after a 10 year ordeal! A newcomer? I think so, i guess i have to re-read the whole site and book again to get back on track.
My true test now starts and quite honestly this is where most others here have started with a separation or WAS. I have been so in turmoil (but keeping a smile on) over the last few days whether the fight is worth fighting, but in my heart, even after 10 years of off and on frustration and being neglected i still want better, and if with my W then thats great. My 180 has started in truth and i'm working on GAL. Is this too late? IS a decade a factor too much to overcome? My W has seen a C again today and her curt phone convo did not sound promising. I believe this C is useless and lazy and just reinforcing her resolve to get a D fast. What can i do in that regard? I certainly won't ask how the counselling went.
