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[MichelleLT]

Who knows why the WAS dawdles over stuff sometimes. It's the pattern for some reason. When they need/want something, they want instant response. When you ask them for something (even though it will help them out) there's just not the same pressure. It's like they have to make sure you know that they don't have to jump when you say jump or something (consciously or subconsciously, true or not, it's what they try and project). It's part of their detachment.

Just try not to let it get to you. If she REALLY needed the money right NOW, she would have been calling back. So just shrug your shoulders and stick to the classic guys line about how no one understands women.

Good for you on pushing to get on a schedule with the boys. So what if they have commitments this weekend. That's part and parcel of the package. Just get their schedule and hang out with the boys. Should be fun times! It'll be awesome that you get to see so much more of them now!

Sorry to hear W is sick. I'm sure that's part of the reason she has so little energy to deal with this stuff. But, you having the boys this weekend will give her a nice break.

This is a transition time. And a chance to really showcase the person you have worked so hard to become.