Thanks so much Whitney!! I needed to know that!! I feel so alone sometimes! You are right, X doesn't care about my problems!!

He did just call me back and we talked nice...he has no job and no prospects (he made pretty good money at an executive level and those jobs are hard to find)! We both have a lot on our plates and D18 isn't helping. I did again offer for him to come up here and live at my condo, I can live at my parents house, they are in Florida for the next 4 months. One household is much cheaper to run than two, but XH won't do it, he values his friends there more than his kids here! I told him not to respond to me and to think it all through and weigh the pros and cons...he said he would, but he won't! It is just sad!

Thanks again for all your support!! It means more than you know to me!!

A

Me-40
XH-44
T-21
M-18
Div-19 mo.
D-18,S-15,D-11
Bomb-7/07 EA,PA
Mvd out-9/07-to give me space
mvd back-12/07
mvd out-7/08
back with OW since 2/08
OW broke it off-1/10
in and out of tunnel and our life since!!