"I am now engaged to a wonderful man, who has made me realize maybe ex didnt love me as a man should love his wife"

Karen - I like this. smile
I must admit, it has slowly dawned on me that MY ex didn't love ME the way a man should love his wife - even during the "good" years. I think I was blind to it because of my great love for him.
I plan to set higher standards for my next lover.