Well sg, she didnt show up. She called instead. After a two hour conversation that was going no where it ended with her asking if she had to take me to court to see her children.
I told her that she was more than welcome to see the kids at the house or her friends place. She said she couldnt do that. She repeated her question and i asked her if she intended on bringing OM near our children.
After a 2 hour conversation where i told her things about the OM she didnt even know, where she defended him to me, where she swore he was a good guy.
She said "I will have to get back to you on that!"
WTF!!!!! after all that she says that to me. I just dont get it. I just dont understand what is going through her head.
I will say that for the first time in the last 9 months, i was able to keep calm. I didnt raise my voice or yell. I wasnt mean, even when she was saying hurtful things to me.
I stuck to the facts as my lawyer had identified to me and when she got really loud and cut me off i told her if she continued to do so the conversation would be over and I would hang up the phone.
I am at a loss, she admits that she made numerous mistakes over the last year including that she didnt come to me about the state of our marriage. She never complained once and she admitted that she screwed up, but as far as she is concerned, its in the past and its irrelevant now. She did what she did and she is with OM now and everyone has to deal with it.
So how do you know you made mistakes and not do anything to fix them?
I am starting to think she will never want to work on this marriage. I am starting to give up. I need to get off of this roller coaster before it gets any worse.
I contacted my lawyer today, told him what happened and I told him to push for a date to go before the judge. My marriage is over, i see that. I think it is time to move on.
