For a real solid response? It took about 3 months.
And when I say dark, I mean dark, no contact unless it was about bills or our boys. Not the version of dark where you can backslide or be dark only when it suits you.
I ignored all the crappy little, "I thought you might like this article emails."
But that is her and my timeline, not going to be the same for you.
As to what she said?
It doesn't matter, your wife won't be saying the same things.
John based upon your rapid fire posting, I'd say your freaking out a little, go workout get rid of some of this energy, you want my story I have about 9000 posts you can read if you really want to kill some time MrBond has almost 4000 and Sandi has 7000+, but I don't recommend it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK