I guess what I meant by results being slow was that we've been working through issues for a while. It's just that I hit rock bottom when she dropped the bomb.

It's definitely a daily struggle. The hardest thing is to keep things in perspective. If she doesn't want to be touched it may have zero to do with you. It has to do with her.

She actually said that in very kind words this morning. Told me not to take it personally.

I just want to encourage others to keep trying and keep strong.


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE