TAM,

Just getting caught up here.

I have to echo what Eric said up thread......

TIME TIME TIME TIME TIME TIME TIME TIME......

AND THEN.....

More TIME......

Eric is also right about not looking at him.....That is not to say don't make observations, but don't get wrapped up in it...

Real easy to say...

but

Real hard to do.

Focusing on you and making decisions for you will help you be strong when he does come around fully.....

You will have to be strong enough to make him walk the walk when it comes time.

You will have to be strong enough to walk away if and when he is not doing what he needs to.

You will have to be strong enough to fight the anger monster and keep it at bay.

You will have to be strong enough to see this through......

The thing is that you are STRONG enough, just need to put it into action........

You are doing great......hang in there.

Cheers

Formerly "missherlove"

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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison