Oh, and I don't agree with sending some cute joke to her. But, that's just me. If you're working on being dark....then be dark. If you are not consistent longer than six days, what have you accomplished?

If she really wants you above anyone else, she'll get rid of OM for good. Same applies to you.

There is some root problem here in this R and it may take a therapist to help you figure it out. Both of you are insecure and instead of assuring each other, you took it out on each other.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!