It's only been six days of darkness? Not enough time. I disagree with the others. I don't think you should pursue right now.

Your FIL is going home to tell his W everything that was said and then she's going to tell your W. Let your W stew and wonder for a while.

This whole D thing came to a head over her threatening to put the dogs out of the house! The two of you had fought since getting legally M. There needs to be more time for each of you to get your acts together and decide just how much you want to be together.

She's beginning to wonder if you really want her. Good! Maybe she'll even work up the courage to contact you. Let her pursue a bit.

Is OM still in the picture? Have you cut lady friends from your life?

My advice is to talk to your DB Coach and go by her/his advice.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!