I discussed the realtor thing with her. We agreed it doesnt hurt to have the realtor in to look at the place to give opinions about what things to improve, and i will listen as far as advice of selling strategy and timing but really we are in the middle of winter and buyers won't appreciate the yard itself which is a selling feature imo.
It is an odd situation (surreal to me) that this is happening and i feel conflicted in my emotions. I feel i should be more distraught but i am actually not. A good thing maybe? At this point if GAL'ing and detaching fully works miracles on my W and she suddenly comes running back to me than i might consider giving it another go, but maybe not...and quite honestly i have as much chance winning the lottery. Its better to think this is invetible and move on.
On a side note, sleeping in a separate room in my own bed has been great. I'm actually sleeping much better. Funny, why is that? And whats funnier is now the cats are confused and wake my W up to be fed early morning. Welcome to reality! Maybe she will come to realize all that i have done for her over the many years, lol
