It isn't really that I am hanging around waiting for a message or call, it is more really my confidence in taking the initiative and how often.
I am coming to realise that I think I always thought that when i had a new relationship it would be the same as my old r with exh and things aren't - for good and for bad, it is very different. I think because my confidence in this area isn't up and I tend to be hyper-vigilant it makes it harder to know what is 'normal'.
