punchy, I hear ya about trying to stop interpret actions and comments. Take them for what they are worth. I would assume that you are listening unbelievably closely to what she is saying and trying to glean any bit of positiveness out of it. When you don't hear it, it becomes negative.

That's a fight I have with myself daily. BE the new person and those thoughts will go away. Chances are, you're making more out of it anyway.

I feel that if you stay positive and optimistic, it will show in your personality - a trait she may find attractive again.

stay strong, Punchy!

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together 18
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2nd bomb 3/30/11
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