Mila, I have to say that I have been thinking -- no, fantasizing -- a lot lately about saying many of the things you said to your H to mine. I am sneaking up on it in a way -- making a few more pointed comments in our convos, not letting his slips go by without response, pulling back when he clearly hasn't considered his actions -- but I haven't let him have it yet. If / when I do, it will be when I truly don't care how it affects him, me, or any chance for our R, but I am not there -- yet.
Don't beat yourself up about saying your piece. At least you are in touch with your feelings, were able to express them, and were honest about them with your H. That is being true to yourself, regardless of how it affects your H.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
