I am doing things different Bond. And yes she is in IC.

I am much more thoughtful, help around the house, more supportive roll with kids, give little gifts (she likes that), make the bed every day, bring her tea every morning while shes getting ready. The other day I suprised her at work and brought her favorite soup at lunch. I didn't stay, I just dropped it off and left as she was working. She said the other girls thought it was sooo sweet. She texted me right away and thanked me for the thought.

I am doing the things I did when corting her. I'm not being a doormat. I'm just doing those thoughtful things that take almost no effort but bring a sense of love.

I think that is why things have progressed so fast. She sees the changes and they have been constant for months.

Gotta keep it up through my fears. As I have said before. I love this forum to vent. Because at home I am a different person.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012