If you've been in MC for awhile and that issue hasn't been addressed, it sounds like you're both dancing around the issues rather than confronting them head on.
Usually the only way it works is if both parties acknowledge their parts in the M then come up with a concrete plan to fix those areas with total and open honesty. That's just my .02.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
