Been in MC for a long time. But we really never put in effort. We each thought the other person was the problem.

The OM is just someone she met when she went out with a girlfriend to go to a shooting range. OM owned the guns and was taking them and teaching them.

Swrendipidy (sp)...

I will not bring up email or pics yet. I need to continue to piece and get W to a place of love again.

Sandi, did your H ask you at some point or did you voluntarily give up pics, delete emails, etc?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012