Ok, you've made the decision to hang in there. But if it's half hearted it really isn't the decision is it. So--the most important part of that decision is to make yourself attractive to her. And that is by being the whole, healthy you.
That means taking care of your body, your mind, your spirit, your energy, etc. That's job 1.
So each day, you get up and you take care of your body. That engages your mind, and your spirit. Work out, eat, or eat and work out. Read something helpful to you and get that in your mind. Get ready, work on your job search. Check in with your kids. Keep it light, loving, positive. Do something that's part of your hobby or non-work. Make your plan for the next day.
If you don't agree, modify this plan. But let's make a daily plan.
You have got GREAT DBers helping you here. They are looking out for you and giving you a lot of wisdom. Let it help you.
