He is 34. He took the last year (starting jan 10) off work with pay to finish is phd. Since he was going to be home more I started working and he would watch the kids a few days a week. He also stated a new businsess on the side which put a lot of strain on us. It was a very stressful year and everything came to a head in November when I discovered him chatting with another women. We went to couceling but honestly it made things worse. He has changed so much. He has always been a the grass is greener and is always seaching for what would make him happy. Never thought his obsessive personality would led him to think it was his family. In the past he as obsessed about moving, chaninging jobs, selling our house to move to a new neigborhood, starting a new business on the side etc. Now he says he is unhappy and should be happy (has a great job, friends, kids) and blames it on me. It is CRAZY we have a great life, great friends, lovely home, we have always been close up unil the past two months. He says now he hasn't been happy in a long time, is agitated all the time. I was hopeful after thanksgiving. I got the book DB and stated working it and it seemed to be working. He talks about our future, kisses me bye, talks and jokes around. Then last Saturday he started pulling away again. I hate this it is making me sick!! I should also mention he is on anti-depressent and is drinking a lot lately. He always gets depressed the days after her drinks.
