Piecing and not talking about your R is sort of like two ostriches standing next to each other with their heads in the dirt.
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Trying not to backslide and bringing this up has the potential to cause a backslide...
Yes, that is why HOW you do this is important. Demanding and such not a very good idea.
You cannot be afraid to put things out there, to bring things up because she might leave. But you also have to realize when your wants/needs are reasonable, and not irrational.
When you can do that, then you have real boundaries. I.E. no pictures of him/them on the computer.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
