Thanks, Jack. If you get some time. I would appreciate any feedback you could provide after looking through my sitch. The more advice I can get, even though it may be the same, sometimes it helps to hear things presented in a different manner.
Mr Bond is the sheeit in my mind. Nice to know he is there for me.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11