Thanks Bolt, I need the encouragement to keep it up.

I have not been pursuing and have been a darn good guy. Especially to the kids, for some time now. I'm just not seeing anything changing. If anything I think she sees it as me accepting the D.

I don't see any other options, so I will just keep it up.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair