You can get rid of all the accounts, emails, photos, etc. But I have some truth. The OM cannot be erased from BOTH of your lives. You can only deal with how you approach the OM.
I really think the best thing to do is to give her reasons NOT to think of him in your daily life. I know I'm terrible at taking my own advice but I believe this.
Are you guys in MC? or are you doing this on your own?
I do think, maybe Sandi knows, but the OM has to be addressed at some point. I could be wrong, but I know I haven't gotten there yet. We haven't even touched upon it in counseling.
Let me speak from personal experience (you are better at this than I) you have a good thing going now, but it's probably more fragile than you think. Now why would you want to rock that boat?
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
