Last night was bunko nite at our house. So W wants all of us out (of the way) D17 goes over to her BF's house. S11 and I go to friend's to watch the BCS championship.
As I am pulling out of the drive, one of the bunko guests pulls in. She walks over to my car to say "hi" gives me a hug thru the window and then goes on, "I'm so sorry about everything; these things happen etc etc." I reply, "That's okay, everything's going to be okay; have fun; win something," and I pull off with S11.
So there's one of her confidants.
Later that night after we get home and S11 is in bed (school night you know), W is cleaning up after the party. I had helped set up beforehand, straightening up the place and vacuuming and stuff. W says "Thank you for helping tonight." She sounded obligated I guess, since the rest of the time is silent treatment. I retreat to the cave to catch the 2nd half; W goes off to shower and bed, ignoring me.
Just reporting on events. Why do I feel like D day is getting closer?
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
