How old is your H? Sounds like a typical MLC. Has there been any "triggers" (life changes) that might have made him start to re-evaluate his life? Job change, career loss, death of a family member, added responsiblities, birthday, etc.?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.