If you feel like this isnt the end, then it probably isnt. First some questions...
1. Have you read DB or DR?
2. Are you willing to stick it out here and be open to the advice you will receive?
3. Are you willing to change in order to save your R? Can you accept that after this process things may never be the same? That you may never be the same?
SF
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A