Thanks for the support:) I really need any advice. His behaviors are just so confusing. One minute he is saying I love you at the end of our phone calls and before bed and the next he is distant and cold. We have been more intimiate in the last month than in the last several months.
I have been doing good with the advice Sandy gave me. I just need to stop obsessing about the women he was e-mailing. He did admit she sent an email wishing him a merry christmas...I think there is more to it but don't know. I feel like if I leave it alone it will burn itself out (she lives several hundred miles away)...never thought I would be the type of person to look the other way.

Tori