Sometimes the job and 'coolness' factor is part of that. What can you do to up your ante on those things? Is money important to her? Or was the partner aspect more important to her?
Oh, money's important to her alright. That's why she had the crazy idea of being divorced roommates, 'cause we'd only get half what our house is worth, that is if we could sell it, plus the kids would remain in the home with mom and dad for a while.
The partner aspect is more like what my coach told me about our drifting apart and losing the emotional connection. It could have contributed - or not, don't know for sure.
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