Yep very typical. In fact, after you leave you are going to see that she's going to be VERY happy that you've moved out. Don't be surprised if she throws a party after you're gone to celebrate her new independence.
Because as far as she's concerned, YOU were the one who made her life crap. The WAS has a way of transferring all of their issues onto you. They can't face it themselves so they need a scapegoat to blame. I believe that's why many second marriages dont' work out because the initial problems that were there in the first place, never get resolved.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.