Taking your own advice - that is so true. We learn things and they go over our heads until it is time to pass it on to others. Then thats when it really sinks in. So keep advising others, it is part of the learning process!
Being detached from your emotions IS a GOOD thing! And even if you backslide, pick yourself up, the next cycle will be even better. I am on Day 7 of my nth cycle and its going better than ever. Its only when you can detach that you start healing.
The first time I did that, my H noticed it right away, and asked me how I seemed to be growing stronger in the midst of it all.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
