Sometimes it may not be the differences per se (Physical, behavioural) between OP and ourselves that attracts the WAS. Its the novelty - the romance, the sense of freedom , when they communicate, there are no childcare issues, house issues, money issues - it is the escape. How can you compete with that?
My H said that succinctly during bomb day - that when he got to know OW, who was freshly divorced then, what struck him was her sense of freedom from the stifling relationship she had with her exH, and then H felt that he wanted that feling of freedom as well.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
