Gut check. We are supposed to be detaching and not concern ourselves with what w is or is not doing. Typing this for myself as much as for you. I am with you habitacker. I don't see my wife being one to have an A, but with a recent comment from her to her sister that 'now she is living the single life' with me not living at home anymore, would she consider it an A? OK, back to not thinking about what she does or doesn't do.

One thing I think about a lot is if we are all spending so much time on the site reading and posting, does that keep us stuck ruminating on our sitch and is it a bit unhealthy? Just a thought.


M42
W38
D5D7
M8
Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10
Moved out 1-7-11
FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11