So, i thought an in-house separation was talked about last 2 weeks ago and we talked more just last week about timelines, schedules etc, and i had THOUGHT we wanted to resolve some financial issues, work on the house to fix obvious things to max any return when we sell, and give time for the girls to adjust. You know, some time to ajust and prepare.
But not so appartently. Really pisses me off!! Just yesterday she starts chain emailing me about a much needed bathroom reno which her brother (contractor) can do and i can help with. Kinda soon but okay we can plan it at least. Its money though we are trying to use to pay off things. But no, just got an email asking to get her house keys at lunchtime when i go home to give to her brother to look at what needs to be done. Also, she's just been talking to our realtor this morning who want to put up the house right away...GAHHH! WTF!
So much for fricken plans she wants to escape as fast as she can apparently. What do i do? Do i put my foot down and say whoah? hold the phone?!? Does she not realize how this will put us into a bind? At the very least we have all kinds of stuff we need to put into a spring yard sale and what do we do with that?
Things are going well this week although she seems to be happy with separate sleeping arrangements judging by her mood. I'm afraid this has empowered her to move faster.
