Number of successful DB'ers as it relates to WAS.

[ScaredinCanada]

Thanks ATE.

I understand that the point is to save ME, but the reality is that right now I want to also save my M.

I guess I was asking the question to understand the legitimacy of the WAS. Trying to understand how many of them really leave for good, whether the "fog" we talk of really becomes their reality for good.

I'm trying and will continue to work on ME with limited expectations on the M, but it's still in the back of my mind that one day she might realize that I am worth working through our issues - or that the new me is someone that she trusts and who she wants to be with.