This question gets asked every few months or so. The numbers aren't good, but if you don't try, you have zero chance.

You aren't at the point yet, but you will learn that success doesn't mean saving your marriage, it's about saving yourself. You will understand when you make it through.


M:39 W:37
Together: 16 years
Married: 11 years
Bomb: May '09 (ILYBNILWY)
Moved out: Nov '09
D: 10, 8, 4