What should I do?

[awest1217]

Forrest,

I have always gotten help from reading what you post to other people because you are straight and don't put any fluff in.

Really be careful before you leave. I understand not being happy, and I have wondered if my H ever decided to come back if I would take him because I don't know if I would ever be happy with him again, but D is horrible. It damages everything and everyone around.

I am with K, what W is saying is typical and in the heat of the moment we all say things that we don't mean. She is probably not watching her words like you.

I don't really have great advice because I never got to piecing, but I would hate to see a marriage that made it end now. Maybe go to C by yourself for a bit and see if she will come with you when it isn't an ultimatum.

Weigh everything carefully because the road to D is filled with hurt and pain.