Positively moving forward

[awest1217]

More snow on its way, but I think most of the lake effect (that is what got us this week) is going to stay just west of where I am so that is good for my arms. lol.

About the guy, the dreams have stopped. It is someone who is good for S, but not someone I could actually date. Really there is no one for me to date right now so whomever I date it will probably be someone from another city and someone I don't know right now.

With S, he is doing better this week, but he hasn't been with H either. The nightmares usually happen right after H has him. H did call S yesterday and S talked to him so that was good, but once again I don't know how long this will last. I get after H and then he is good for a week or two and then something more important comes up and he goes a week or two without ever talking to him. S did say something this morning about spending the night at daddy's (another issue in itself because H isn't living at his parents and is lying to S which is not a good way to have a relationship because children pick up on that a lot more than we do although they are also more forgiving). I asked "do you want to spend the night at daddy's?" He right away said NO!. I asked do you want to go to daddy's and play then come home to sleep and he said yes. I think pushing it on S was bad so now it will be a while before he even tries again.

Tomorrow I have parent teacher conferences, but it is the last one for the year so that is good. I can't believe that we are half way through the year already. Before I know it, it will be the end of February and I will be starting my last trimester for the year. It is exciting, but that also means going back to school to keep up my liscense. I am deciding between trying to take a technology class and taking a reading comprehension class. Both are very big right now in my school so I will just wait to see what is offered and when.

With the D, I haven't heard anything from my L. I told her some dates that would be good for a mediation/property meeting so we can get this done. The way it sounds is if it comes to that and we both agree that it will be it. We will both sign and be done that day which will be great because I just want to move on. The bad part is if it takes that long, we will still be married on Valentine's day and I was hoping I would at least have an opportunity to go out on a date that weekend if we were done, but we will see.

As I said above, I am sore from falling/shovelling, but all is good. My students have a test today and tomorrow starts my favorite 3 weeks of the trimester (naming and balancing equations), then there is two weeks and then the week of finals. Crazy! Science Fair at the end of January.