Hi,

I think it's control in it's basic form as well as the need to control their own options as they see them.

As long as they are creating delays in the divorce process, they instigated, they feel they have the option to return if things don't quite work out they way they thought they would.

In all our cases.....Our H's have been very careful not to stray too far almost always leaving one foot in the door. Keeping us at arms length and reeling us in at whim when we have strayed.

It's all so very interesting.

I for one wish I was not called upon to live out the drama of a MLC. It's eye opening and the lessons have proven invaluable. It has taken it's toll on me at the same time.

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11