Also, maybe I'm misreading but are you saying that your parents were always supportive of you, yet you felt that you couldn't express yourself to them?
Maybe I'm not getting why you were happy your W laid into your mom when it sounds like they were supportive of you. W's may come and go but your parents will always be your parents.
My parents have always been supportive of me except when it came to my W. They've never really approved of her. To a point that's fine, but my mother has done and said some things that were really inappropriate - but I was never able to tell her she was in the wrong (until now).
I guess what I never realized is that my parents will be there for me regardless, which is why I really should have backed up my W in the situations where my M miss treated her.
Your right when you talk about the WAW thinking thaqt everyone else is wrong. My W has also complained that our wedding stunk, and that it was a horrible day.
I don't know, maybe it is for the best. Maybe we were never meant to be together? Maybe we will both be happier in the long run? I just hate this road I'm on, and I can't remove the fact that I love my W.
Oh well, I feel like I've really detached from my emotions over the last 3 days - I need to stay strong and focused.
Thanks for the comments Bond.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011