Stop looking at what he is doing. Stop looking at what he is saying. Stop looking at HIM. Period. I know where this path leads - been there done that. Keep your eyes focused in front of YOU, keep your focus on what YOU need and what YOU want. This is NOW TAMF time...time to heal, time to reflect, time to really find who you are.
TIME
I say again
TIME
Do not rush into anything. Do not rush to pull him closer OR push him away. The only thing that you should be doing is healing.
And guess what healing needs?
TIME.
As Antonia said..."stay with it".
Look, as much as it will eat at you, do not respond to him. Stop doing things for HIM and start finally doing what TAMF wants to do. Caution - he may try to suck you in, he may try to blame you, he may try a bunch of things. Please keep focused on YOU.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans