I absolutely miss the emotional connection, but looking back...I'm not sure I ever had that. The two guys I've dated haven't been able to go 'deep' emotionally like I need a partner, huh...maybe next time.
Well, I still hope to give marriage another try; I mean we lasted 21 years and most were pretty darn good. I believe the Universe will send me an amazing man when I'm ready. Right now, I'm enjoying life, training to compete in CrossFit at age 50 (9 months away)and spending time with fabulous friends. I tell everyone I meet that I'm looking. Heck, I even have business cards printed up with my email and phone number and I gave a bunch to "trusted" friends to hand out as they see fit. Last week when I was with my doctor (a triathlete who sees triathletes)I gave her some and told her to hand them out the the fit guys around age 50. She said she definitely has someone in mind! I say, don't give up, stay positive! Those of us on here are "prizes" and we have to remember that. We will find love again!!!!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10