I found my wife had called the OM's office today and got upset. Not angry, just bummed. turns out is was part of a conference call for work.
Of course, I ask her about it. Now she's disappointed that I "checked" up on her, I'm disappointed that she didn't tell me first or right after it happened.
I hate stuff like this. I feel bad that she called his office, I feel bad for checking the records and finding something, I feel bad that I set us back.
Oy vey, this is a long process.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.