I am having serious doubts about visitation tomorrow. My w thinks i am controlling already. I have been trying to show that i am not, and i am seriously afraid that she will take the kids not going with om as me trying to control her and use the kids as leverage to make her come home.
I had a talk with my MIL tonight and when i told her my concerns she flipped out, said she doesnt really care about w feelings on the issue. All we know about the OM tells her that he is no good. he hasnt responded to text to show that he even cares what she as w mother thinks of the situation.
She will go bankrupt to help pay the legal bills to keep him away from the kids. She firmly believes he really doesnt care to get involved too much. So she told me if i was going to cave then i am not to be home at the pick up time, and she will deal with the situation.
So my entire family and her own mother and brother are on side with us. The boys father is on my side on this. It doesnt make it any easier. They all think it will push her to reach rock bottom, I dont know how much lower she can get. She has been fired, charged for theft, suspended license and her car was repo'd and i get stuck with it.
All i can think about is how she is going to go balistic on me and blame me for it all. I actually think she will hate me for this and it will ruin any hopes of reconciliation. So I am really worried for tomorrow.
