Okay just playing devil's advocate here. If he's lied to you and mislead you so far why are you holding onto him? I understand that you love him, etc. But what about the safety of your kids? Your love for him seems to be making you blind to all of the things that he's done to you. IMO.
My guy sense is tingling and it's screaming BS. He knows he can control you which is why he's yanking you around. H knows you won't leave. To me that's just emotional abuse. And the fact that he isn't really thinking of your kids. A real man doesn't do that.
So why do you want to stay married to him?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
