thatgirl - I'm glad you were able to visit with H. I wonder if my H and I will ever get to that point. He did spend most of the day here at our home, helping us shovel snow and hanging out with S. I was quite surprised at that.
Sometimes he needs something (not affection!) from me, and wants his answer yesterday. If I have a question, he pretends he doesn't receive it for a number of hours. Guess he has this detachment down quite well.